Our subconscious is actually a pretty crazy beast. It stores all of our thoughts, beliefs and memories throughout the duration of our lives. On the one hand it’s good because we don’t have to spend too much time thinking about things; i.e. when someone shows us a marker with a red lid, we automatically know it’s a red marker. We’ve had the experience over and over again of knowing the lid on the marker tells us the colour. Therefore, it’s ingrained into our mind and our being.
I invite you to look at what your reasons are for not following through with your commitments. You need to realize that your subconscious is going to try to show you every excuse in the book to derail you, to throw you off track. It will literally try to convince you why you should not grow and change, and show you really good reasons, like getting sick.
By constantly rushing and worrying, we will not actually see the opportunities literally all around us right now to give us what we are asking for. If we’re operating from fear and worry, we will block the divine direction available to us from Source. We will only see things that vibrate on the same level as fear and worry – which is nothing to write home about 🙂 It likely looks like debt, lack of clients, working with people we don’t love and doing things we don’t want to do.
Be of service. The minute you step into doubt, worry or fear, you are not coming from a place of service. You are worrying about yourself and your own situation. Prospective clients will pick-up on this energy. They may not be able to put their finger on it, but they will sense something is off. Alternately, when you come from a place of service you aren’t worrying about you. It’s essentially not about you in that moment. You are focused on them. How you can help, and how you can be of service. Take some time to connect with that part of you before hopping on the phone or going to a meeting. Take three deep breathes and make the intention to connect. Think about how much you love to help people and see the bigger picture of what you are doing. Come from that place always when connecting with potential clients.
Something that may help you reshape the way you think about money is to think about what you would do with it if you had more of it. Would you travel more, live in your dream location, have help around the house, give back to an important charity?
Clarity and confidence go hand in hand. When you can get clear on what it is you really want and where you want to go, you will move forward with much more confidence and ease. On the flip side, when you are clear on what your area of expertise is, you will have the confidence to go after what it is you want.
Instead I learned that it’s okay to live from our hearts. To make decisions from that place. To check-in with our hearts for the answers. Always. The mind can then be used to help us carry out our desires in a positive and creative way. That enables our minds to really shine.
I had a great time this week speaking for www.nafe.com and hosting a meet-up. I love getting out and connecting with other business owners. And sharing information that will help them move forward. It really feeds my soul. At the meet-up our focus was on…